Q: can you see me today?

A: I do have a very full schedule, and I like to plan everything in advance. I highly recommend contacting me at least 48 hours prior to when you would like to meet, and I often need up to a week or 2 weeks of advance notice. You can always try to get my attention for a same day appointment, especially when I'm on tour—but consider this fair warning that it's not likely to happen!

q: do you require a deposit?

A: I do not require a deposit for dates 4 hours and under. I do require them for FMTYs, customized and extended dates. Due to banking discrimination, I require online payments be made through 1 payment processor only (please ask for details). I apologize for that inconvenience, and it’s part of why I don’t require deposits on shorter dates. If it is your preference to pay a deposit, I will happily take it.

q: are your rates negotiable?

A: Unless we are discussing a customized date over an amount of time not listed in my coins (rates) section, my rates are set in stone. Attempts at negotiation will result in me being angry and probably not talking to you anymore.

q: do you provide references for other providers?

A: Yes! If we have ever had a date, I am happy to provide a reference for you. I don’t have a time period that I limit this to because it’s my policy to give other providers as much information as I can on clients I have met, including how long ago we met. It also means I will share the good, the bad and the ugly with other providers, so just keep in mind my willingness to give a reference does not equal a willingness to give a good reference. So be on your best behavior with me (and all providers!) if you’d like to get a good reference.

Q: what sort of people do you see?

A: As long as you are respectful in communication with me, willing to be screened and 25+ years old (sorry to the younger folks, I actually just feel uncomfortable with folks younger than 25 because I’m in my 40s!), you are the sort of people I see! I do not discriminate based on race, gender, lifestyle, body type, disability, etc. etc. I also love to entertain couples and groups!

Q: do you have reviews? what is your review policy?

A: I did accept reviews on The Erotic Review in the past, but I have delisted from that site and ask that clients no longer review me there. I have too many reasons to list here as to why I’m not taking reviews there, but this article will tell you more about one of them if you are interested. If I discover that you have reviewed me on TER, I will not be seeing you again.

Q: are you "clean"?

A: Allow me to speak frankly: I get tested every 3 months and I require condoms for penetration below the belt with everyone (that includes you, and it's non-negotiable). I am happy to discuss safety further in person, but I find stigma around sexual health to be really distasteful. I don't like the term "clean" because it implies that others are "dirty," so let's just be up front and say what we mean to say. We're all adults here!

q: do you offer _____ services?/ is this particular act on your menu?

A: First of all, I appreciate email communication free from specific requests for particular acts. I think you will find me very open to exploration and trying lots of different things! And the more I trust a person, the more likely I am to be flexible on some things I may not do the first time I meet someone.

Q: What happened to your switch/ kink experience?

A: I am currently taking a break from offering kink and fetish engagements. Some experiences can be negotiated with me in person, but I currently prefer a more vanilla and girlfriend type experience.

Q: Do you drink/ smoke/ party?

A: I don't drink because having even a glass of alcohol usually makes me ill, unfortunately. I don't smoke cigarettes, but it's fine if you do (just not in my space). I have been known to do hallucinogens here and there, but not on our dates! That's a bit too wild for me. I am 420 friendly on dates, in moderation, and a confirmed weed connoisseur in my off time. I take prescribed medication for anxiety, but am otherwise drug free. I appreciate it when my friends show up for dates sober and moderate alcohol or cannabis intake while with me.

q: I miss you! Can i send you an email just to say hi and chat?

A: Of course! However, please understand that my schedule is very full, and my response may be brief or non-existent. I keep up with any correspondence regarding details for our date, but my ability to respond to chatty emails depends on a lot of variables. Please don't ever take it personally if you don't get much of a response from me!

q: didn't you used to go by kitten karlyle?

A: I did! I changed my stage name to Kitty because Kitten is not a single person's real name, and it was always awkward to meet folks in public or to have my name come up in pillow talk. You can also call me Kit, Kat, Kay, Kate or whatever K name variation suits you. Just don't ask me my real name! That's rude.